tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4249639309117736586.post5864507842567431439..comments2010-10-26T09:55:27.179-04:00Comments on Life In My Shoes: An Unhappy Postemily82http://www.blogger.com/profile/08966644466341218869noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4249639309117736586.post-41287537482875716302009-02-03T14:57:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:57:00.000-05:00I agree with the leaving part. The only time I ev...I agree with the leaving part. The only time I ever threatened to leave was when I really meant it. I was actually already gone (was already out of town visiting family for other reasons) so I was threatening to not come back. So he knew I was serious. Right now, I feel like I want to stay and keep working at it. I just get really frustrated sometimes.emily82https://www.blogger.com/profile/08966644466341218869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4249639309117736586.post-60252113583460348772009-02-02T14:32:00.000-05:002009-02-02T14:32:00.000-05:00I wanted to comment before but basically wasn'...I wanted to comment before but basically wasn't too sure what to say. Sometimes I know that we all need to vent & other times... <BR/><BR/>I truly do feel your frustration though. My hubby didn't think some stomach pain that I had had for over 10 yrs (came & went) was any big deal even though I had to go to the er constantly. Finally someone did an mri & they admitted me asap. Surprised him when they wanted to do surgery first thing in the morning. So I do get what you are saying. <BR/><BR/>One thing I learned the one & only time we went to counseling is that you should never threaten to leave unless you are actually going to walk out the door right then & there. Not a criticism btw since I was doing the same thing.<BR/><BR/>I do wish you all the best; being a military spouse is a job unto itself!sues2u2https://www.blogger.com/profile/08393950748230547758noreply@blogger.com